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Despite a pledge by U.S. President Donald Trump to his Turkish counterpart President Recep Tayyip Erdoğan in a phone call on Friday to stop providing weapons to the People’s Protection Units (YPG), Pentagon spokesman Col. Robert Manning told reporters on Monday that Washington would continue to support and arm the Syrian Democratic Forces (SDF).

The YPG is the military wing of the Kurdistan Workers’ Party (PKK)-affiliated Democratic Union Party (PYD), and dominates the SDF.

Col. Manning said that the U.S. Defense Department was “reviewing pending adjustments to the military support provided” to the PKK/YPG.

The pentagon spokesman stated that the measure of halting military support to the group was not implemented.

Turkey’s Deputy Prime Minister Bekir Bozdağ on Monday said that weapons provided by the U.S. to the Kurdistan Workers’ Party (PKK)-affiliated People’s Protection Units (YPG) must be collected.Following a telephone call between Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdoğan and his U.S. counterpart Donald Trump on Friday, Trump said that Washington would not give weapons to the PKK/PYD terror group anymore.“The call marked a turning point in strained relations between the two countries, but Washington must honor a pledge to end weapons provisions to the terrorists,” Bozdağ said.US pledges to end arming PKK/PYD terroristsThe YPG is the armed wing of the Democratic Union Party (PYD), which is the Syrian offshoot of the PKK. The PKK is listed as a terrorist organization by Turkey, the European Union and the United States. Since the PKK launched its terror campaign in Turkey in 1984, tens of thousands of people have been killed.Bozdağ said the United States would be deceiving the world if it did not halt the weapons supplies to the PKK/YPG.Over 4,000 trucks of ammunition, hundreds of armored vehicles and weapons were sent to the PKK/PYD by the U.S.Erdoğan-Trump discussionThe White House said on Friday that Trump said that he had informed Erdoğan that Washington was “adjusting” military support to partners on the ground in Syria.Before his call with Erdoğan, Trump tweeted about the U.S. presence in the Middle East saying: “What a mistake, in lives and dollars (6 trillion), to be there in the first place!”President Erdoğan shared a photograph taken during the call his on Twitter account. It was seen that the call was conducted in his study of the Presidential Palace complex. Foreign Minister Mevlüt Çavuşoğlu, National Intelligence Organization Undersecretary Hakan Fidan, Presidential Spokesman İbrahim Kalın, Chief of Cabinet Hasan Doğan and Senior Advisor Hamdi Kılıç were photographed.PM Yıldırım: US must end partnership with PKK/PYDUS wants to use Zarrab case to impose sanctions on AnkaraBozdağ said that the U.S. wanted to use the trial in New York of a Turkish gold trader to impose sanctions on Ankara. Bozdağ stated that the U.S. had pressured the trader, Reza Zarrab, to sign off on accusations against Turkey.”They may have told Zarrab, ‘Either you will remain in prison until you die, or you will sign under what we tell you,’ and they threatened him with retributions to sign off on accusations,” Bozdağ said.’The US interfered with Turkish trade relations’

“Weapons provided to the Syrian Democratic Forces, which include Kurdish elements of the SDF, would be limited, mission specific, and provided incrementally to achieve our objectives,” Col. Manning said.

In a Friday phone call with Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdogan, Trump “clearly stated that weapons will not be given to the YPG anymore and said that essentially this nonsense should have been ended before,” Turkish Foreign Minister Mevlüt Çavuşoğlu said on Friday.

While recognizing the PKK as a terrorist group, the U.S. has treated the PKK/PYD/YPG as an ally using Daesh as a pretext, despite its PKK ties as documented by Turkey.

Since the PKK launched its terror campaign in Turkey in 1984, tens of thousands of people have been killed.

U.S. President Donald Trump recently told his Turkish counterpart Recep Tayyip Erdoğan in clear terms that it was “wrong” to supply weapons to the PKK/YPG, the Turkish prime minister has confirmed.Binali Yıldırım’s comments came during an interview with BBC World.”Mr. Trump understood what is important for Turkey,” Yıldırım said, in reference to Trump’s pledge to Erdoğan in a Friday phone call on ending the supply of arms to the terrorist PKK/PYD and PKK/YPG in Syria.”They [the U.S.] said this [cooperation with YPG or PYD] is not a choice. This is a necessity… Ok. We understand, although we do not accept. It is a temporary relation. Now, it is time to finish because Daesh is already defeated,” the premier said.”So, President Trump said it is wrong to provide weapons. This is clearly mentioned.”Stating that Turkish policy on fighting against Daesh had been quite “clear” since the beginning, Yıldırım said it was important to “choose the right partner” to fight Daesh.”You are not able to fight a terror organization using another terror organization,” he added.The U.S. later said it is “reviewing pending adjustments to the military support provided to our Kurdish partners in as much as the military requirements of our defeat-ISIS and stabilization efforts will allow to prevent ISIS from returning,” referring to the Islamic State of Iraq and Syria, another name for Daesh.”We have always been clear with Turkey that the weapons provided to the SDF, to include its Kurdish elements, would be limited, mission-specific and provided incrementally to achieve military objectives,” Pentagon spokesman Eric Pahon told Anadolu Agency. He said the U.S. would “continue our partnership with the Syrian Democratic Forces to complete the military defeat of ISIS”.Pentagon says will continue arming PKK/YPGAt the White House, spokeswoman Sarah Huckabee Sanders said even though a complete defeat of Daesh is in sight, “that doesn’t mean stopping all support of those individual groups”.”Once we started winning the campaign against ISIS, the plan and part of the process is to always wind down support for certain groups,” she said. “Now that we’re continuing to crush the physical caliphate, we’re in a position to stop providing military equipment to certain groups.”No doubt about Gulen’s links to coup bidIn response to a question whether Turkey had submitted evidence to Washington showing Fetullah Gülen, the U.S-based leader of the Fetullah Terrorist Organization (FETÖ), had links to last year’s defeated coup attempt, Yıldırım said the necessary documents had been submitted.”For us, it is obvious. We have no hesitation. We have no doubt about it,” he said, referring to Gulen’s role in the defeated coup bid.FETÖ and Gülen orchestrated the defeated coup of July 15, 2016, which martyred 250 people and injured nearly 2,200 others.FETÖ is also behind a long-running campaign to overthrow the state through the infiltration of Turkish institutions, particularly the military, police and judiciary.Yıldırım also answered a question on accusations about the detentions since the defeated coup attempt.”This kind of accusation is there. I accept. But those who are accusing us should think about what happened on July 15,” he said.”Our parliament building [was] bombed. And their bombs killed 250 innocent people and [left] 2,194 heavily injured. What can we do then? We have to find [those] who committed crime. This is the situation in Turkey,” Yıldırım said.”We don’t detain people without evidence. This is for sure,” he said, adding the rule of law prevailed in Turkey.The Turkish premier called on Turkey’s critics to show “empathy” instead.”Did you face this kind of thing? If you face this kind of thing, then we will see what you are going to do,” he said.Yıldırım also dismissed accusations that Erdoğan had been becoming an “authoritarian” leader.”Erdoğan is not deciding who is going to jail or who is going to [be] freed. The court is deciding,” he said, adding there was freedom of the press in Turkey.”We have a free press,” he said. “Even the pro-PKK paper is published.”Video: Turkish PM meets with British foreign secretary

The deputy chairman of the main opposition Republican People’s Party (CHP) said on Monday that the U.S. will need Turkey’s backing for staying in Syria after Daesh is defeated in the region.Speaking to journalists in the parliament, Ozturk Yilmaz called on the U.S. to cooperate with Turkey ahead of the Syrian peace talks in Geneva.“The U.S. will need Turkey and Turkey’s backing for staying in Syria after Daesh,” said Yilmaz.He added that this could lead to diffusing of tensions between the two countries.US must collect weapons distributed to PKK/YPG: Deputy PMThirty-six members of Syrian opposition’s High Negotiations Committee will attend the peace talks in Geneva this week.Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdogan met Russian President Vladimir Putin and Iranian leader Hassan Rouhani in the Black Sea resort city of Sochi to discuss Syria, last week.During the meeting, the three leaders agreed to gather a congress of Syrian groups to advance a political solution for the war-torn nation.Ozturk Yilmaz recalled that Iran, the Bashar al-Assad regime and Hezbollah did not want the presence of the U.S. in Syria’s future.Russian air strikes kill over 50 civilians in eastern SyriaHe added that only PKK/PYD/YPG terrorist group wants U.S. presence in Syria “which will not be at the solution table” in Geneva.”For this reason, the U.S. needs a powerful regional partner, which is Turkey,” said Yilmaz.Yilmaz also urged Turkey and the U.S. to take a joint step for the territorial integrity of Syria.The PYD and its military wing YPG are Syrian branches of the PKK terrorist network, which has waged war against Turkey for more than 30 years.While recognizing the PKK as a terrorist group, the U.S. has treated the PKK/PYD as an ally in its anti-Daesh efforts.Syrian child escapes death after playing with bombSyria has only just begun to emerge from a devastating civil war that began in early 2011 when the Assad regime cracked down on pro-democracy protests with unexpected ferocity.Since then, hundreds of thousands of people have been killed in the fighting and more than 10 million displaced, according to claims by the UN.

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Cyprus Mail: Woman, 27, remanded in connection with embezzlement case

A 27-year-old woman from Limassol was remanded on Tuesday for six days in connection with the reported theft of 78,000 from her employer.

The woman, who had been wanted by the police for several days, was arrested on Monday.

An arrest warrant was issued against her after she was reported by her former employer some two weeks ago that she had admitted stealing 78,000.

The theft was recently discovered during an audit for the period between January 1, 2016 and January 27, 2017.

The owner of the business, who sells computers and stationery, told police that the woman, who had resigned from the company before the theft was discovered, admitted that she was the one that took the missing money.

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Cyprus Mail: Tchaikovskys iconic score wins Christmas

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The shape he will take this year will be in the form of ballet to be performed at the Satiriko Theatre in Nicosia on Friday and at the Pattichio Theatre in Limassol on Saturday.

The ballet, with music by Tchaikovsky and choreography by Yury Grigorovich for the Bolshoi ballet, will be performed by stars from the Bolshoi Theatre and Art Devotion Dancers.

The two-act story, which is based on the book The Nutcracker and the Mouse King by ETA Hoffman, brings to the stage the universal themes of power, love and evil, together with a fairy-tale setting and enchanting costumes.

Set on Christmas Eve, the story tells of a young girl who receives a nutcracker doll as a gift. After being broken by her brother, she cares for the wounded nutcracker, who later comes to life to save her from the evil Mouse King and is then transformed into a heroic prince. Together the prince and girl travel to an enchanted island where celebrations, hosted by the Sugar Plum Fairy, are held in their honour.

The performance is directed by Irina Lazareva, a tutor at the Bolshoi Theatre.

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The 36-year-old American star and the British royal announced they are getting married on Monday (27.11.17) and will tie the knot in spring 2018, thereby bringing Meghan’s acting career – which has seen her appear in the hit US drama series ‘Suits’ – to an end.

Meghan is now going to put all her focus on to her charitable work alongside her husband-to-be and she’s excited to start this new challenge.

She said: “I think what’s been so exciting [transitioning] out of my career and into, as you said, the causes I can focus even more energy on, very early out of the gate, [is that you] have a voice that people listen to, a lot of responsibility.”

Meghan has already served as a UN Ambassador and previously studied international relations.

The brunette beauty has insisted that rather than dwelling on the end of her acting career, she is committed to making a change in the world with her humanitarian work.

Meghan – who recently finished shooting her final scenes for ‘Suits’ – told the BBC: “I see it is a new change, a new chapter.

“I’ve been working on my show seven years, we were so fortunate to have that longevity, and I feel like I checked that box and am very proud of the work I’ve done there.”

Meanwhile, Prince Harry has insisted that his future wife is already aware of the enormous responsibility she’s taking on.

He explained: “[There’s a] sense of responsibility from day one. I fell in love with her and she fell in love with me … but then we had to have some frank conversations for what you’re getting yourself into is a big deal and at the end of the day she chose me and I chose her, whatever we have to tackle individually or together, we will do it as a team. I think she’s capable of anything.”

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Attorney-general Costas Clerides on Tuesday requested the cabinet appoint an investigator to lead a disciplinary probe against attorney Eleni Loizidou, the Press and Information Office said.

The council of ministers which convenes tomorrow will appoint an investigator to look into the matter, the Press and Information Office said in an emailed statement on Tuesday, a day after Clerides announced his intention to order the probe, in addition to a data-theft investigation.

In the leaked emails of the attorney, who until Monday headed the extradition department at the Law Office, appears to have helped Russia to have fugitives extradited even in cases where they had applied for political asylum. In addition to appearing to have offered favours to Russia, Loizidou who used a private email account for the communications, also appears to have requested personal favours.

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Cyprus Mail: Happiness expert on her life in balance

Its the small choices we make every day that shape our lives, a psychologist and happiness author tells THEO PANAYIDES

Dr Jessamy Hibberd stands onstage at the Filoxenia Conference Centre in Nicosia, quoting Cavafy. Keep Ithaka always in your mind, she tells the assembled audience. She hasnt brought too many visual aids a slightly irrelevant photo of herself at 13, a few slides with useful buzzwords like Empty Time and Thoughts Arent Facts the main attraction being the account of her own stumbling journey to happiness, or at least greater happiness.

Do not hurry the journey at all, she recites, approaching the end of a poem which she feels is a perfect summary of what shes been saying. Shes slim, 37, with a frank, square-cut face and a beaming smile. Better if it lasts for years, she goes on, and her voice starts to shake a little now, so you are old by the time you reach the island. Wealthy with all you have gained on the way / Not expecting Ithaka to make you rich. Her voice breaks. Emotion flows. The talk is over.

This is at TEDx University of Nicosia, an event titled Game Over. Play Again? which drew a dozen speakers and performers, mainly from the UK and Cyprus. The audience is predominantly young, which is par for the course; TEDs motto is Ideas Worth Spreading meaning, implicitly, new ideas, those which have not yet spread, casting the audience as eager disciples tasked with going out into the world. Those assembled are presumed to be modern, tech-savvy, urbane, high-achieving. The speaker before Jessamy is Oliver Burkeman, a Guardian columnist based in Brooklyn, who makes passing reference to events like this, where smart and ambitious people are gathered yet the tone is also reassuring, making the smart and ambitious people feel better about themselves.

Its odd, in a way, all these authoritative speakers giving people licence to relax. Experts like Oliver and Jessamyn are secular sages for the age of the smartphone, keepers of life-hacks and other keys to unlocking the modern world. Burkemans column in The Guardian is titled This column will change your life; similarly, if you plug Jessamy Hibberds name into Amazon youll find a half-dozen bestselling books with titles like This Book Will Make You Happy (only the last word changes from book to book, the five other titles being MindfulConfidentCalmSleep and Feel Beautiful). She was featured in the Daily Mailearlier this year, offering six daily habits that are scientifically PROVEN to make you happier. Yet Olivers message at TEDx was basically that we ought to chill out, stop stressing about all the things were not doing and focus on things we are doing and Jessamys talk came with a similar slant. My motto now is that What you do every day is what makes the biggest difference, she informed the audience from the stage of the Filoxenia. Its small steps that lead to the biggest changes.

This philosophy is relatively new for her. Indeed, its something of an irony that four years ago, when she was writing books promising to make people happy (to be fair, the titles were her publishers idea), she was living quite a different lifestyle, focused more on goals and achievement. The catalyst was the birth of her second child, a daughter (she also has a six-year-old son and another, 20-month-old daughter), adding an extra layer that forced her to make some changes. I became very focused on meaning after I had my daughter, Jessamy tells me, sitting in a nearby conference room after her talk, and what makes a meaningful life, and I did a lot of research around that.

I think for a long time its been [our belief] that success is work-focused, she goes on, and that its you know, a good thing to say youre in the office till 10pm. I dont agree with that. I think you can do really good work, and I hope thats something I do but I dont need to give five days of my week over to it. Its about finding a way that fits for you.

Theres a lot of her conversation contained in those sentences. The emphasis on research, which she often cites to make her point. The talk of finding what fits for each person not just in life but also, for instance, in the strategies she uses with patients. Above all, the mention of her well-rounded week. A clinical psychologist is my main work, explains Jessamy, so I work with people experiencing common mental-health problems like anxiety and depression. My work is one-on-one with them, I do two afternoons in London and then, on Wednesday, I do Skype calls at home. And then Thursday and Friday Im with my three children not in London but Brighton, where she lives with the kids and her husband Jack and have my other role as a mother with them. I think back to Oliver Burkemans talk, in which he wryly spoke of that mythical state known as work-life balance and compared it to the yeti, or Abominable Snowman a fabled beast, much talked-about but never captured, its alleged sightings infrequent and unverified. Hes obviously never met Jessamy Hibberd, and the hairy Himalayan monster she calls a lifestyle.

It sounds like a charming fable: well-known professional and bestselling author learns to slow down after becoming a mummy. I guess thats not wholly inaccurate but it gives the wrong impression, for two reasons. First, theres nothing slow about her Thursdays, Fridays and weekends: Those days arent calm, not with three children and frantic schedules (her six-year-old is even taking lessons in computer coding; kids these days, eh?). Second, theres nothing very Zen about Jessamy herself. Are you quite an easy-going person, I ask, or secretly driven? I think Im not-so-secretly driven.

She talks fast, so fast she sometimes trips over her words. Im not very good at sitting still, she admits. Shes active, obsessively punctual and doesnt waste time, husband Jack (who works at a beer brewery) being apparently the anchor in this relationship. If were going for a train, me and my husband, I know what time the train I want to get is, and I quickly rush to get it whereas hes liable to get a sandwich, get a coffee, if he misses it who cares. One gets a sense that her life-change of the past few years came as a kind of epiphany the realisation that I dont have to rush from place to place, you know?… That it doesnt all need to be time-filled.

The notion of empty time is a big part of the current lifestyle; All of the research shows that those who have empty time are much more productive, and work much better. Then again, her own empty time isnt vegging out in front of the TV (Vegging out in front of the TV is definitely a good thing but its not empty time, because your mind is engaged, she claims) nor does it come through, say, meditation. Much of it comes through being active, running a five-kilometre parkrun every Saturday morning or walking around with her music on though of course it can be almost anything, walking a stop on your commute rather than getting the Tube or taking a moment to look out the window on the train instead of perusing your phone. A more introspective type could find empty time just by staring into space; for Jessamy, however, emptying the mind often goes hand-in-hand with exhausting the body. If Im stressed, going for a run really helps. Shes that kind of person.

Some might say shes just a privileged woman who was lucky enough to achieve her professional goals early on and (apparently) doesnt need to worry overmuch about money. This, however, is missing the point. First of all, money isnt everything: Ive worked in the poorest boroughs of London and the richest boroughs of London, and the problems that people experience are not about wealth. Of course, wealth makes it more comfortable if youre going through that but the difficulties in their life are no different. Secondly, she herself admits (in her talk) that every box on my checklist was ticked four years ago a doctorate in clinical psychology, her own private practice, a loving husband, two amazing kids, and her books as well yet the feeling of contentment wasnt there, which was why she sat down and tried to look deeper. Her insights into what makes us happy havent come because of her success, but (paradoxically) in spite of it.

Above all, Jessamy Hibberd is a practical person. Shes not academic, never has been; at school she was an average student, never the first to hand in homework (she preferred riding and gymnastics). Even now, her tastes arent especially highbrow: she likes Coldplay, very cheesy music like (yikes!) Justin Bieber, Donna Tartt when it comes to novels. She likes tennis, running, walks on the beach with the kids, outdoorsy stuff in general. This kind of temperament lends itself not to grand unified theories of happiness but plain, practical measures her small steps theory as mentioned above, the idea that the choices we make every day shape our lives, step by little step. I think we all trick ourselves that theres going to be this kind of answer, [with] everything being great, but it doesnt need to be complicated. It can just be the simple stuff you do.

Take, for instance, the six scientifically PROVEN tips she supplied to the Daily Mail, including things like visit a friend (relationships are the key indicators for well-being, health and happiness, she tells me) and get up straight away when your alarm goes off in the morning, instead of hitting the Snooze button. Take her reluctance to make sweeping statements, and the very practical insistence that everything is person-specific; the one plea she always makes to patients with depression, she says, is to come back and tell her what strategy is working for them and what isnt working because everyones different. Take her secret to parenting (offered with the usual caveats about not presuming to tell other people how to raise their kids), which is simply to look at things realistically: I recognise that, when theyre being difficult, its not like a personal insult to me. Its just how kids are.

I wont say I got very far in connecting with Jessamy Hibberd as a person. She and Jack have to get to the TEDx post-party, and besides she doesnt need to reveal herself to me shes just spent 20 minutes opening her heart to a packed house! It may also be that shes more of a natural sponge, like all good psychologists; I note the way her initial expression is blank on first meeting, as if waiting to respond to my own energy. Still, theres a strong impression of a dynamic, down-to-earth, compassionate woman dont forget she spends most of her week counselling anxious, unhappy people; it takes mental strength to remain so chipper whos still rather driven and goal-oriented, even after the life-change. Its just that her goal is different now: not just achievement, but a life in balance.

Cavafy was right: its the journey, not the destination. Modern life makes that hard to discern sometimes, just because its so busy; we can access reams of data in seconds, and communicate with the other side of the world. No surprise that many people long to relax. No surprise that HappySleep and Calm were the most successful in Jessamys This Book Will Make You series. No surprise that TEDx, for all its world-changing ideas, often operates as a kind of verbal spa treatment, reassuring high-achiever types that its all right, you can take your foot off the accelerator sometimes, its about the small, simple things as much as or more than the lofty ambitions.

My goals do not define me. I do not suffer in my pursuit of them, and they are not some kind of test of my self-worth, proclaims Jessamy earnestly from the stage of the Conference Centre. My life is now, she tells the assembled TEDx-ers, and sounds like it comes from the heart. Being with my husband. Hugging my kids. Being in a room with any one of the amazing people I have the privilege to work with. Working on new ideas. Catching up with my mum and dad. Giggling with friends over a glass of wine. Walking along the sea front where I live. Running in the park. Being here with you. The crowd eat it up.

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